Things My Mother Gave Me
When I went off to college in 1969, my mother gave me a Webster’s New World Collegiate Dictionary and the money to buy a typewriter. I chose an Olivetti, lightweight and portable. (Believe it or not, along with shooting a rifle and close order drill, the Marines taught me to type with all ten fingers.)
When I went to graduate school in Chicago eight years later, my mother bought me a briefcase and a winter coat for the Windy City.
The coat kept me from freezing to death through two of the coldest and snowiest winters I’ve ever encountered, and I wore it for years till it finally became so threadbare my wife insisted I buy a new one.
The typewriter lasted a dozen years through college and grad school, years of correspondence, dozens of poems typed and sent out and rejected and typed again and sent out again, and every now and then “a cigar.” I even typed my first memoir on it, draft after draft after draft for two long years. Hundreds of pages. A lot of White-Out.
The briefcase lasted even longer. I still have it, and it still works, though at 76 and mostly retired, I’ve got little need for it now.
And I certainly haven’t used that ancient dictionary, now so out-of-date that usages have changed, and words that didn’t exist fifty-five years ago are part of everyday vocabulary. Who needs a dictionary when you’ve got the internet and Spell Check? But I keep mine anyway. I haven’t opened it in years, but I’ll never let it go. My mother gave it to me.
W.D. Ehrhart is author of Thank You for Your Service: Collected Poems (McFarland, 2019). His most recent collection is At Smedley Butler’s Grave (Moonstone, 2023).